CW: abuse Present. Facebook memories remind me about anniversaries; things I know are approaching but I don’t remember the specific date until I see it pop up under the cheery “on this day” header. Every year they sneak up on…
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Fucking Closure
I visited an ex the other night – we’ve seen each other a few times since the break up, and it’s been awkward, distant, lonely, but nice, I guess, that we were able to exist in the same space together….
Food Fight!
Sometimes things don’t work out as planned or as hoped. Sometimes too many roommates being around stops a scene. Sometimes sudden illness, surprise visitors, or conference stressors do. Sometimes a scene takes about a year to actually come into fruition….
Write Some Dang Words Already!
The start of the year saps the creative life from my bones, takes my words and vision and grinds it to a halt. It’s always been this way. I’ve always put the blame on a wicked case of seasonal affective…
Edging, Sex Toys, and Power
When it comes to sex, power is often my favourite thing. It doesn’t matter if I’m the one with it or not; the ways in which power and control can be used during sex is extremely fascinating and hot to…
Speak // Swallow Me Whole
The below audio recording is an auditory transcript of this essay I’ve got my earbuds in and his voice – soft, yet rough, my favourite tempo – fills my ears. I could hear him speak for days, would listen to…
Leave the Orgasms at the Office
You know the saying “do what you’ll love and you’ll never work a day in your life”? Well, if you’ve ever tried following that saying, you’ll know that, inevitably, that thing you love…becomes your work, it becomes something that you…
Fight or Fright
I haven’t tried writing erotica in yeaarrrssss. This piece was supposed to be a fear play-themed article for Halloween and then rapidly became smuttier, so I decided to try and go with it. Want a less dirty article about this…
Standing to Pee (in Your Bum)
I’ve gone on record talking about how I’ve never wanted to have a penis, and I stand by that, I don’t. But I’m also pretty into watersports, and honestly my aim isn’t great. I’ve always hated those pee-in-a-cup tests because…
In Defense of Brats
Brats get a bad rep in the kink community. Dominants write them off immediately with a dismissive “I don’t care for brats”, submissives make it an “us vs them” situation. Some folks like to take them on for the challenge;…