Heck. I haven’t done one of these in a while. Not since October, 2017. Why not? Well, it didn’t feel like it was adding anything to my site, that it was a piece any of you (or me, for that…
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I Just Really Hate Conferences
TW chronic health, food, eating disorders, income/money On face value, conferences seem like something that I would enjoy. There’s so much opportunity to learn and practice different skills, a bunch of your friends, probably a pool or lake to swim…
The Signing of FOSTA/SESTA
Hey all, it’s been a while. As you hopefully know – but if my facebook feed is any indication, you likely don’t – FOSTA/SESTA was signed yesterday in the US. This, combined with the CLOUD Act, is already resulting in…
Kink Lifestyler
There are so many different ways to practice BDSM – not just a wide, wide range of kinks and fetishes, but also numerous levels of kink activity – if you’re on fetlife, these options range from “just curious” to “just…
Kinky Summer Camp: Loves, Lessons, and Limits
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to go to a kink camp in the middle of nowhere with about 700 other kinksters – only four of which you’re certain you know going into the event? Anyone? Well, I have….
Making the (Sex) Blogging Community More Accessible
Welcome to my first guest post! I asked my friend Mari Ramsawakh to contribute a post on making the (sex) blogging community more accessible to bloggers of colour, especially those with disabilities, and they – rightfully – have a lot…
5 Favourite Memories from Woodhull SFS17
TW: kink, pictures of intense bruisings, talk of fisting I was fortunate enough to make it to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit this year (SFS17), thanks to people who generously donated to a crowdfunding campaign, and my two sponsors, Lovedreamer and…
Conference Survival Guide
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Making Conferences More Welcoming
Conferences can be extremely hard. They are busy and everyone is stressed and/or excitedly meeting up with their friends that they barely get to see. They can be cliquey, or seem cliquey. Conferences can feel like you’re surrounded by your…
The Blogsquad
If you frequent sex education/review sites or follow us on Twitter, you have probably come across the term “blogsquad” (or “squad”, for short) before. If you have, there’s a good chance that you haven’t been entirely certain what this term…