Hey all, it’s been a while. As you hopefully know – but if my facebook feed is any indication, you likely don’t – FOSTA/SESTA was signed yesterday in the US. This, combined with the CLOUD Act, is already resulting in…
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There are so many different ways to practice BDSM – not just a wide, wide range of kinks and fetishes, but also numerous levels of kink activity – if you’re on fetlife, these options range from “just curious” to “just…
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to go to a kink camp in the middle of nowhere with about 700 other kinksters – only four of which you’re certain you know going into the event? Anyone? Well, I have….
Welcome to my first guest post! I asked my friend Mari Ramsawakh to contribute a post on making the (sex) blogging community more accessible to bloggers of colour, especially those with disabilities, and they – rightfully – have a lot…
TW: kink, pictures of intense bruisings, talk of fisting I was fortunate enough to make it to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit this year (SFS17), thanks to people who generously donated to a crowdfunding campaign, and my two sponsors, Lovedreamer and…
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Conferences can be extremely hard. They are busy and everyone is stressed and/or excitedly meeting up with their friends that they barely get to see. They can be cliquey, or seem cliquey. Conferences can feel like you’re surrounded by your…
If you frequent sex education/review sites or follow us on Twitter, you have probably come across the term “blogsquad” (or “squad”, for short) before. If you have, there’s a good chance that you haven’t been entirely certain what this term…
TW: abuse, abuse apologists, nonconsent jokes, mention of bloodplay, “feminists” behaving badly, sexual assault, rape apologism, victim-blaming Community is a way to feel connected, to make friends, to be a part of something that’s bigger than just you. Sometimes you…