I have a crush on you. Don’t worry, I probably don’t want to date you. It’s possible I don’t even know you. I crush easily and often and I don’t expect anything from it. Are you a friend of mine?…
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Conference Survival Guide
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Making Conferences More Welcoming
Conferences can be extremely hard. They are busy and everyone is stressed and/or excitedly meeting up with their friends that they barely get to see. They can be cliquey, or seem cliquey. Conferences can feel like you’re surrounded by your…
The Blogsquad
If you frequent sex education/review sites or follow us on Twitter, you have probably come across the term “blogsquad” (or “squad”, for short) before. If you have, there’s a good chance that you haven’t been entirely certain what this term…
Kink on a Budget: Wall Displays
“Martha Stewart’s sex dungeon couldn’t be better organized than this.” This compliment thrilled me immensely. I had spent the previous hour installing and organizing my newest creation – a wall display for my impact toys, CBT impediments, and a few…
Gloves!
When it comes to safer sex, gloves are something that are sorely underappreciated. The first time a partner requested gloves during sex, I went along with her request but I didn’t see the point of it. I hadn’t read or…
When Community Changes: Toronto International Porn Festival
TW: abuse, abuse apologists, nonconsent jokes, mention of bloodplay, “feminists” behaving badly, sexual assault, rape apologism, victim-blaming Community is a way to feel connected, to make friends, to be a part of something that’s bigger than just you. Sometimes you…
No Penetration – My Quest to Reclaim Masturbation
TW: sexual descriptions, rape, self-harm, anorexia, mental health, surgery Let me share a secret with you: The first time I masturbated, I was 13. I started having sex when I was 15. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I…
On Anxiety, “Being Enough”, and Porn Production
The biggest piece of advice I have for anyone who wants to make porn but doesn’t feel ready is to simply do it. I know, easier said than done, but hear me out. When I started producing (and performing), I…
Taylor’s May Wishlist
I love making lists, and I especially love making wishlists! I have one on amazon, on about a half-dozen specific stores, here… What can I say – I like to shop or, at the very least, imagine what I would…