PLEASE NOTE: Escorting may not be legal where you live. Please familiarize yourself in the legalities so you are aware of your risks, especially post-FOSTA/SESTA. So you’ve decided to hire your first escort. Congratulations! There are so many reasons to…
Do not treat me as if I am a novelty; your learning moment; the giver of unpaid educational labour My body was not built, carefully, purposefully, for you. My gender and expression belong to me alone When I remove my…
A lot of folks have brought Buck Angel’s new product to my attention – the Buck Off, made by the manufacturer Perfect Fit. According to the product description, this is “the first product designed specifically for transmen to engage in…
Did you know that Bex is turning 25 soon? Because they are! They’ll be spending their birthday in Toronto and, because Kate is the best, they’re getting a birthday spanking party. How cool is that?! The party takes place this…
The artist I was dating asks how I would feel about still hooking up now that we aren’t together. I freeze, gaze darting away from his, as I attempt to find the words to convey my reaction. I don’t…
It’s time to job hunt again. I open a word document and start brainstorming potential jobs I’d want to do. Photography. Porn. Writing. Organizing. Attendant care. Mental health. The list goes on. Imposter syndrome talks me out of one, exhaustion…
Not too long ago, I celebrated my second anniversary of making porn and, in relation to that, I’d like to share ten things I’ve learned about the industry that the average person I speak to doesn’t realize. This list only…
At the end of April, I went on a road trip with Girly Juice, Bex, and Caitlin. Because we’re sex bloggers, we created a hashtag for the trip to document our adventures, and set off on #HaveDildosWillTravel. The three of…
There is something to be said about the ways in which two genderqueerdos move around and against each other and navigate sex that I have not seen anywhere else and gets me right in the feels each time. On my…
If you’re anything like me, winter makes you feel pretty crummy. Between the decrease in light; the lack of visible green, growing things; and spending less time outside and/or with friends, I go through a bit of a depressed period….
