Years ago, I began developing this persona. More than half a decade has past since then, and I’ve ended up in a wildly different place than I expected to when I started. When I created “Taylor”, all I was after…
Category: Sex Work
Leave the Orgasms at the Office
You know the saying “do what you’ll love and you’ll never work a day in your life”? Well, if you’ve ever tried following that saying, you’ll know that, inevitably, that thing you love…becomes your work, it becomes something that you…
Healing from Trauma
TW description of sexual/assault, trauma, mental illness, self harm, intrusive thoughts, gay slurs, slurs toward sex workers, non self-inflicted cutting, death threats, nonconsensual age play, suicidal thoughts, suggested necrophilia, nude photos, photos of implied (but not actual) cutting I haven’t…
The Signing of FOSTA/SESTA
Hey all, it’s been a while. As you hopefully know – but if my facebook feed is any indication, you likely don’t – FOSTA/SESTA was signed yesterday in the US. This, combined with the CLOUD Act, is already resulting in…
8 Stereotypes About Hiring an Escort
One of the things I hate about this industry in how full of misconceptions it is. Here are the 8 stereotypes that I hear the most often, and why I think they are not true! Curious what else I’ve written…
Pay For Your Porn!
Porn is fucking amazing. Like thousands of other folks, I have built a career around porn. I love filming it, performing in it, writing and talking and teaching about it, and I love watching it. Alone, with a partner, or…
When Community Changes: Toronto International Porn Festival
TW: abuse, abuse apologists, nonconsent jokes, mention of bloodplay, “feminists” behaving badly, sexual assault, rape apologism, victim-blaming Community is a way to feel connected, to make friends, to be a part of something that’s bigger than just you. Sometimes you…
On Anxiety, “Being Enough”, and Porn Production
The biggest piece of advice I have for anyone who wants to make porn but doesn’t feel ready is to simply do it. I know, easier said than done, but hear me out. When I started producing (and performing), I…
9 Tips for Your First Time with an Escort
PLEASE NOTE: Escorting may not be legal where you live. Please familiarize yourself in the legalities so you are aware of your risks, especially post-FOSTA/SESTA. So you’ve decided to hire your first escort. Congratulations! There are so many reasons to…
10 Truths About Making Porn
Not too long ago, I celebrated my second anniversary of making porn and, in relation to that, I’d like to share ten things I’ve learned about the industry that the average person I speak to doesn’t realize. This list only…