I have a few strap on harnesses, and even fewer occasions to use them. Honestly, I’m always a bit self-conscious of my skills in this area – it’s a stamina thing. Strap on sex is something that you have to…
Category: Harnesses
Dress Me In Bike Tubes
Feeling sexy as a trans person is hard sometimes. One of the things that helps me personally is to dress up, to look good. I take a great deal of satisfaction in showing up to an event done up, knowing…
Standing to Pee (in Your Bum)
I’ve gone on record talking about how I’ve never wanted to have a penis, and I stand by that, I don’t. But I’m also pretty into watersports, and honestly my aim isn’t great. I’ve always hated those pee-in-a-cup tests because…
Bella – A Femme’s Dream
Lately I’ve been really feeling my femme side. Think flower print, big earrings, low necklines, lace, and feeling unhappy with my strap-on harnesses. I love the harnesses I had, but I’ve always itched for something femme. I’ve lusted after companies…
Spareparts Hardware Joque Harness
I have tried a wide-range of harnesses and this is definitely the best I’ve found. Once adjusted to fit, the Spareparts Joque stays in the right place regardless what position you’re in – no need to pause the action when…