My Collection

Curious about what’s in my toy box? Below is a list of my sex toys and books, with links to reviews where applicable. A strike-through designates an item that I no longer own, a Orange Heart means I love this designates something I love, and x means this is awful means it’s an item I hate (sometimes for me personally, other times a blanket “do not recommend ever”).

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  • Cal Exotics Power Balls
  • Hole Punch Toys SQURM Orange Heart means I love this, The Hole Punch
  • Njoy Fun Wand, Pure Plug Large Orange Heart means I love this
  • Pipedream Anal Fantasy Collection Inflatable Silicone Plug
  • Pleasure Works Sidekick
  • Tantus Twist, B-Bomb Orange Heart means I love this
  • TopCo Climax Silicone Vibrating Bum Beads
  • Vixen Creations Tristan 2
  • We-Vibe Dusk


  • Aslan Silicone Ball Gag (Vegan) Orange Heart means I love this
  • Babeland Heart 2 Heart Cuffs
  • Dhgate Dual Ball Anal Hook Orange Heart means I love this
  • Fetissimo 18″ Leather Spade
  • Julian Snelling Rosebuds Penis Head Crown with Urethral Insert
  • Kink by Doc Johnson The Stinger
  • Leatherbeaten Leather Slapper, Liquid Cane Orange Heart means I love this
  • Master R Wooden paddle (this was made locally and I can’t find any additional information about the maker)
  • Pipedream Metal Worx Cock Cage
  • Rock Hard Horseshoe Paddle (“Rock Hard” is the store I bought it from, can’t find additional information about the manufacturer)
  • Sportsheets Manbound Anal Ring Toss, Under the Bed Restraints Orange Heart means I love this
  • Steel Nipple & Labium Clips Clamps With Chains
  • Stockroom The Lolly Crop, Patent Leather Bow Wrist Restraint Orange Heart means I love this, Silicone Bone Gag with Silicone Strap, Silicone Locking Ankle Cuffs, Silicone Locking Collar (Large), Vondage Head Harness with Muzzle, Vondage Hog-Tie, Vondage Locking/Buckling Ankle Cuffs, Vondage Locking/Buckling Collar, Vondage Silicone Bit Gag
  • Strict Leather Ride Me Mouth Gag with Dildo
  • Tantus Plunge, Thwack, Wham Bam Orange Heart means I love this
  • Wares and Wears Metal Finger Claws Orange Heart means I love this
  • Weal & Breech Nº 2552 paddle Orange Heart means I love this Nº 7070 truncheon Orange Heart means I love this
  • Zeus Electrosex Electrogasm x means this is awful


  • Aslan Packing Strap x means this is awful
  • BMS Factory Palm Below, Palm Dual
  • Desireables Adori
  • Fleshlight Mr Limpy/Ultimate Packer Medium
  • Maia SB1 (Silicone Ball) Kegel Balls
  • Rodeoh Black Red Brief Orange Heart means I love this
  • Spareparts Joque Harness Orange Heart means I love this, Bella Orange Heart means I love this
  • Spartacus Nickel-Free C&B Leather Ring
  • Tantus Suction Cup, Super Soft C-Ring, Vibrating Velvet Harness x means this is awful
  • TENGA Easy Beat Egg Lovers


  • Aloe Cadabra Peppermint Tingle
  • Good Clean Love Almost Naked, Restore
  • Hathor Sutil Orange Heart means I love this
  • JO Agapé Original, Naturalove Organic Personal Lubricant, Naturalove Organic Strawberry Fields, Silicone Free Hybrid Original
  • Slippery Stuff Water Based
  • Sliquid Organics Natural Gel, Sassy, Sea, Silk
  • The Butters Aloe x Shea, Cocoa Butter x Honey
  • Uberlube
  • Wet Organics, Platinum


  • Fast Feminism by Shannon Bell
  • Gender Trouble by Judith Butler
  • Herculine Barbin: Being the Recently Discovered Memoirs of a Nineteenth-Century French Hermaphrodite introduced by Michel Foucault
  • Queering Bathrooms by Sheila L. Cavanagh
  • Terrorist Assemblages: Homonationalism in Queer Times by Jasbir K. Puar
  • The Promise of Happiness by Sara Ahmed
  • The Queer Art of Failure by Judith Halberstam
  • The Trouble with Normal: Sex, Politics, and the Ethics of Queer Life by Michael Warner
  • Edge: Travels of an Appalachian Leather Bear by Jeff Mann
  • Giving It Raw: Nearly 30 Years with AIDS by Francisco Ibanez-Carrasco Orange Heart means I love this
  • Hot, Wet & Shaking: How I Learned to Talk About Sex by Kaleigh Trace Orange Heart means I love this
  • Killing Me Softly by Francisco Ibanez-Carrasco
  • Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator by Jason Armstrong Orange Heart means I love this
Erotic Photography
  • A Celebration of Femininity: Sexuality, Lingerie, Fantasy by Joseph Corre and Serena Rees
  • Bottoms by Christiane Blass
  • Demimonde: A Visual Exploration of Fetish by Doris Kloster
  • Feet-Ishism by Hans-Jurgen Dopp
  • Forms of Desire by Doris Kloster
  • Leg edited by Diana Edkins and Betsy Jablow
  • Sex: Take a Walk on the Wild Side: Masterpieces of Erotic Fantasy Photography by Tony Mitchell
  • Tableaux Vivants by Tony Ward
  • The Beauty of Fetish Volume II by Steve Diet Goedde
Feminism, Race, Intersectionality, etc
  • Bitches, Bimbos and Ballbreakers: The Guerrilla Girls’ Illustrated Guide to Female Stereotypes by the Guerrilla Girls
  • Bitchfest edited by Lisa Jervis and Andi Zeisler
  • Race, Monogamy, and other Lies they Told You: Busting Myths About Human Nature by Agustin Fuentes
  • Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power & A World Without Rape by Jaclyn Eriedman and Jessica Valenti
  • The Artisan’s Book of Fetishcraft by John Huxley
  • The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy
  • The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori
Gender & LGBTQ
  • A Guide to Gender: The Social Justice Advocate’s Handbook by Sam Killermann
  • Body Outlaws: Young Women Write About Body Image and Identity edited by Ophira Edut
  • Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation by Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman
  • Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme edited by Ivan E. Coyote and Zena Sharman Orange Heart means I love this
  • Rough Paradise by Alec Butler
  • SKIM by Mariko Tamaki Orange Heart means I love this
  • The Femme’s Guide to the Universe by Shar Rednour
  • Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity by Julia Serano
Open Relationships
Porn/Sex Work
  • A Bit Rough by Laura Baumbach
  • Diary of a Submissive: A Modern True Tale of Sexual Awakening by Sophie Morgan
  • Lips Like Ice by Peggy Barnett
  • Lost Boi by Sassafras Lowrey
  • Sweet and Rough by Sinclair Sexsmith
  • The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty by Anne Rice
  • The Dominant by Tara Sue Me
  • The Submissive by Tara Sue Me