Toy Things I only got one sex toy this month – the Weal & Breach Nº 2552 paddle (the blade of the paddle is made of osage orange wood and the handle is bloodwood so it’s verrryyyyy heavy), and one…
Kink on a Budget: Wall Displays
“Martha Stewart’s sex dungeon couldn’t be better organized than this.” This compliment thrilled me immensely. I had spent the previous hour installing and organizing my newest creation – a wall display for my impact toys, CBT impediments, and a few…
We-Vibe Nope (I Mean, Nova)
On a mission to find sex toys that are compatible for folks with larger clits and/or those who have experienced growth from taking Testosterone, I found myself curious if the We Vibe Nova would be the rabbit vibe for us….
June Spotlight: Fuckleberry Finn
The monthly spotlight is a feature that takes place on the second (sometimes third) Monday of every month and is designed to highlight a blog, vlog, or podcast that is under a year old. There will occasionally be other folks…
Tantus Rumble Review
In 2016, Tantus released their first wand vibrator! There was a lot of hype and excitement about this, as Tantus is well-known to make some of the most incredible silicone toys (their dual-density makes me swoon), but the release of…
When it comes to safer sex, gloves are something that are sorely underappreciated. The first time a partner requested gloves during sex, I went along with her request but I didn’t see the point of it. I hadn’t read or…
TW: abuse, abuse apologists, nonconsent jokes, mention of bloodplay, “feminists” behaving badly, sexual assault, rape apologism, victim-blaming Community is a way to feel connected, to make friends, to be a part of something that’s bigger than just you. Sometimes you…
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May was a bit of a weird, exciting month! I’m still off of sex work due to surgery and, for most of the month, was still unable to be penetrated. But I managed to get into all kinds of trouble…
TW: sexual descriptions, rape, self-harm, anorexia, mental health, surgery Let me share a secret with you: The first time I masturbated, I was 13. I started having sex when I was 15. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I…