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Tag: gender
Chest Fucking, Back Riding, Waist Ouching
I have a few strap on harnesses, and even fewer occasions to use them. Honestly, I’m always a bit self-conscious of my skills in this area – it’s a stamina thing. Strap on sex is something that you have to…
Standing to Pee (in Your Bum)
I’ve gone on record talking about how I’ve never wanted to have a penis, and I stand by that, I don’t. But I’m also pretty into watersports, and honestly my aim isn’t great. I’ve always hated those pee-in-a-cup tests because…
Out with the Old, In with the New (Year)
2017 is finally over. I can’t decide if it sped by or crawled, and I also can’t decide if it was good or bad overall, but I’m ready to move on to the next set of adventures. I’m not going…
What the Heck IS Gender Affirming, Anyway?!
The way people think about gender is SO weird. The way I think about gender, even my own, is confusing and strange. I began my transition about seven years ago – a lifetime for some, no time for others. I…
Kinky Summer Camp: Loves, Lessons, and Limits
Have you ever wondered what it’s like to go to a kink camp in the middle of nowhere with about 700 other kinksters – only four of which you’re certain you know going into the event? Anyone? Well, I have….
We-Vibe Nope (I Mean, Nova)
On a mission to find sex toys that are compatible for folks with larger clits and/or those who have experienced growth from taking Testosterone, I found myself curious if the We Vibe Nova would be the rabbit vibe for us….
No Penetration – My Quest to Reclaim Masturbation
TW: sexual descriptions, rape, self-harm, anorexia, mental health, surgery Let me share a secret with you: The first time I masturbated, I was 13. I started having sex when I was 15. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I…