With Halloween only a day away, it’s high time I discuss one of my biggest kinks – fear play. Before you read further, content warning for: edge play, fear play, knives, implied blood play, consensual nonconsent, hooks, needles, hangings. Proceed…
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Flights, Floggers, Borders, and Bondage – A Guide to Flying with Kink Toys
One perk of my work is that I’m able to travel a lot.One weird fact about me is that I have the worst travel luck. Seriously. Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong; from emergency landings because a bird…
Kink on a Budget: 5 Impact Toys You Must Buy (from the Dollar Store)
If you’re like me, you tend to find yourself wandering through the kitchen aisle at your local dollar store, giggling at the plethora of pervertables that you see for sale. Perhaps you wonder if it’s safe to use these things…
Conference Survival Guide
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Kink on a Budget: Wall Displays
“Martha Stewart’s sex dungeon couldn’t be better organized than this.” This compliment thrilled me immensely. I had spent the previous hour installing and organizing my newest creation – a wall display for my impact toys, CBT impediments, and a few…
Gloves!
When it comes to safer sex, gloves are something that are sorely underappreciated. The first time a partner requested gloves during sex, I went along with her request but I didn’t see the point of it. I hadn’t read or…
Kink Guides: Handcuffs and Wrist Restraints
You feel the cold of steel against your wrists and hear the clicking sound as the handcuffs tighten around you, slowly. There’s a fist in your hair, holding you still, and then you feel yourself get yanked to your knees…