TW description of sexual/assault, trauma, mental illness, self harm, intrusive thoughts, gay slurs, slurs toward sex workers, non self-inflicted cutting, death threats, nonconsensual age play, suicidal thoughts, suggested necrophilia, nude photos, photos of implied (but not actual) cutting I haven’t…
For people who are empathetic and naturally giving, it can be way easier to pour energy into helping others than it is to say that you’re going through a really tough time and need to have some energy directed your…
2017 is finally over. I can’t decide if it sped by or crawled, and I also can’t decide if it was good or bad overall, but I’m ready to move on to the next set of adventures. I’m not going…
With Halloween only a day away, it’s high time I discuss one of my biggest kinks – fear play. Before you read further, content warning for: edge play, fear play, knives, implied blood play, consensual nonconsent, hooks, needles, hangings. Proceed…
If you frequent sex education/review sites or follow us on Twitter, you have probably come across the term “blogsquad” (or “squad”, for short) before. If you have, there’s a good chance that you haven’t been entirely certain what this term…
May was a bit of a weird, exciting month! I’m still off of sex work due to surgery and, for most of the month, was still unable to be penetrated. But I managed to get into all kinds of trouble…
TW: sexual descriptions, rape, self-harm, anorexia, mental health, surgery Let me share a secret with you: The first time I masturbated, I was 13. I started having sex when I was 15. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I…
The biggest piece of advice I have for anyone who wants to make porn but doesn’t feel ready is to simply do it. I know, easier said than done, but hear me out. When I started producing (and performing), I…
The artist I was dating asks how I would feel about still hooking up now that we aren’t together. I freeze, gaze darting away from his, as I attempt to find the words to convey my reaction. I don’t…
There is something to be said about the ways in which two genderqueerdos move around and against each other and navigate sex that I have not seen anywhere else and gets me right in the feels each time. On my…
