CW: mentions of Daddy/boy kink. I broke up with a partner this year. The relationship had been over for a while and both of us were at fault, as is normally the case. But we didn’t want to accept it…
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Collars
“I was wondering…” I began nervously, trying to control my voice in order to appear more relaxed than I actually was. “How would you feel about me having, you know, a thing. Of yours. That I could wear around my…
What to Give the Friend who Gives Everything?
For people who are empathetic and naturally giving, it can be way easier to pour energy into helping others than it is to say that you’re going through a really tough time and need to have some energy directed your…
Falling Back in Love: a Romance with Rope
It’s weird to think that I had “a relationship” with rope, but it feels like it. I fell in love with rope the way I do with people; intensely, overwhelmingly, obsessively, make-it-my-world kind of love. I practiced at least once a…
The Signing of FOSTA/SESTA
Hey all, it’s been a while. As you hopefully know – but if my facebook feed is any indication, you likely don’t – FOSTA/SESTA was signed yesterday in the US. This, combined with the CLOUD Act, is already resulting in…
Out with the Old, In with the New (Year)
2017 is finally over. I can’t decide if it sped by or crawled, and I also can’t decide if it was good or bad overall, but I’m ready to move on to the next set of adventures. I’m not going…
What the Heck IS Gender Affirming, Anyway?!
The way people think about gender is SO weird. The way I think about gender, even my own, is confusing and strange. I began my transition about seven years ago – a lifetime for some, no time for others. I…
Looking Back, Looking Forward: Taylor’s 26th Birthday Goals
Today I turn 26, and am pleased to be spending it in Edmonton with my dominant! Happy birthday to me! Since I am all about self-reflection, trying to do better, and having experiences, I’ve compiled a list of 13 great…
The Best of: April
I wrapped March up by undergoing a hysterectomy, so April was a fairly quiet month as I was recovering from surgery. Despite that, a bunch of exciting things happened! Sex & Sex Toys Since I just had surgery, this means…
This is Not My Body
The artist I was dating asks how I would feel about still hooking up now that we aren’t together. I freeze, gaze darting away from his, as I attempt to find the words to convey my reaction. I don’t…