Feeling sexy as a trans person is hard sometimes. One of the things that helps me personally is to dress up, to look good. I take a great deal of satisfaction in showing up to an event done up, knowing…
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What the Heck IS Gender Affirming, Anyway?!
The way people think about gender is SO weird. The way I think about gender, even my own, is confusing and strange. I began my transition about seven years ago – a lifetime for some, no time for others. I…
To All My Cis Lovers
Do not treat me as if I am a novelty; your learning moment; the giver of unpaid educational labour My body was not built, carefully, purposefully, for you. My gender and expression belong to me alone When I remove my…