Feeling sexy as a trans person is hard sometimes. One of the things that helps me personally is to dress up, to look good. I take a great deal of satisfaction in showing up to an event done up, knowing…
Tag: transgender
Standing to Pee (in Your Bum)
I’ve gone on record talking about how I’ve never wanted to have a penis, and I stand by that, I don’t. But I’m also pretty into watersports, and honestly my aim isn’t great. I’ve always hated those pee-in-a-cup tests because…
Spotlight: Kelvin Sparks Reviews
Meet Kelvin Sparks, an intersex trans man who is a sex blogger, erotica writer, and toy reviewer based in the UK. He is bisexual and predominantly dates and/or fucks other trans folks, and has a wide-range of experiences from monogamy/non-monogamy, vanilla/kink, topping/bottoming, and more. He also has worked as a sex worker in the past, which I personally would love to hear more about because I have seen so few trans men talk about that before (other than myself)!
Out with the Old, In with the New (Year)
2017 is finally over. I can’t decide if it sped by or crawled, and I also can’t decide if it was good or bad overall, but I’m ready to move on to the next set of adventures. I’m not going…
What the Heck IS Gender Affirming, Anyway?!
The way people think about gender is SO weird. The way I think about gender, even my own, is confusing and strange. I began my transition about seven years ago – a lifetime for some, no time for others. I…
PalmPower Recharge Review
I’ve had my eye on the PalmPower Recharge since shortly after it was released as I was looking for a replacement for my trusty Mystic Wand, and had the following criteria: No larger or heavier than the Mystic Wand –…
We-Vibe Nope (I Mean, Nova)
On a mission to find sex toys that are compatible for folks with larger clits and/or those who have experienced growth from taking Testosterone, I found myself curious if the We Vibe Nova would be the rabbit vibe for us….
No Penetration – My Quest to Reclaim Masturbation
TW: sexual descriptions, rape, self-harm, anorexia, mental health, surgery Let me share a secret with you: The first time I masturbated, I was 13. I started having sex when I was 15. It wasn’t until I was 19 that I…
April Spotlight: Insert Trans Here
Insert Trans Here is a new blog (started in August, 2016) and run by a queer trans woman in the States. She wanted to find toys that worked with her body (both now and as her body changes through her transition) and found a lack of other trans women writing reviews. Like many of us in the industry, she therefore decided to start doing reviews of her own in order to help others in a similar position.
To All My Cis Lovers
Do not treat me as if I am a novelty; your learning moment; the giver of unpaid educational labour My body was not built, carefully, purposefully, for you. My gender and expression belong to me alone When I remove my…