For people who are empathetic and naturally giving, it can be way easier to pour energy into helping others than it is to say that you’re going through a really tough time and need to have some energy directed your…
Category: Guides
Rope Bondage: My Introduction
Earlier this year, I fell in love with rope bondage. I quickly became obsessed with the act of tying; the feel of the rope against my skin coupled with a tactile thing to do with my hands and something with…
Knives, Rope, and Death – Oh My!: 5 Reasons Why I Love Fear Play
With Halloween only a day away, it’s high time I discuss one of my biggest kinks – fear play. Before you read further, content warning for: edge play, fear play, knives, implied blood play, consensual nonconsent, hooks, needles, hangings. Proceed…
Flights, Floggers, Borders, and Bondage – A Guide to Flying with Kink Toys
One perk of my work is that I’m able to travel a lot.One weird fact about me is that I have the worst travel luck. Seriously. Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong; from emergency landings because a bird…
Flirting: Taylor-Style
Kate Sloan once published a blog post called “5 Awkward but Effective Ways I’ve Initiated Sex” and it made me laugh so much because that is exactly my life. After talking with her, I’ve decided to publish some of my…
Kink on a Budget: 5 Impact Toys You Must Buy (from the Dollar Store)
If you’re like me, you tend to find yourself wandering through the kitchen aisle at your local dollar store, giggling at the plethora of pervertables that you see for sale. Perhaps you wonder if it’s safe to use these things…
Conference Survival Guide
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Making Conferences More Welcoming
Conferences can be extremely hard. They are busy and everyone is stressed and/or excitedly meeting up with their friends that they barely get to see. They can be cliquey, or seem cliquey. Conferences can feel like you’re surrounded by your…
Kink on a Budget: Wall Displays
“Martha Stewart’s sex dungeon couldn’t be better organized than this.” This compliment thrilled me immensely. I had spent the previous hour installing and organizing my newest creation – a wall display for my impact toys, CBT impediments, and a few…
Gloves!
When it comes to safer sex, gloves are something that are sorely underappreciated. The first time a partner requested gloves during sex, I went along with her request but I didn’t see the point of it. I hadn’t read or…