Have you tried Tantus’ Dual Density 02 line yet? It is mostly realistic dildos, with a few notable exceptions, and has that nice life-like feeling of VixSkin, Pure Skin, etc and it is not porous. It has a good amount of give to it, making it more comfortable to insert into vaginas or asses that are sensitive and, while it has veined ridges along it, it squishes enough that I didn’t really notice them upon insertion.
As always, Tantus’ 100% ultra-premium silicone has no smells or tastes and doesn’t retain any after cleaning. You can boil or bleach it, stick it in the dishwasher, or wash it by hand. It picks up all the lint and pet fur, as a warning.
I tested the with the Aslan Jaguar harness and managed to get the dildo into the o-ring but it took a little bit of work to get it there. If you can swap the o-ring out for a bigger one you might want to but that’s a personal preference (with this one it sits very tight in the harness, giving additional control, though you do run the risk of wearing the dildo’s exterior down a bit faster if you frequently squeeze it into that size of o-ring).
For those who don’t routinely use larger toys, I highly recommend warming up with fingers or a smaller toy first to make the more comfortable. Because it is dual-density you won’t need as much of a warm-up as you would if it was a more solid texture. It really does shape itself to your body once inside but is solid enough that it doesn’t buckle under your muscles.
Photos by Caroline Fox!
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