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The Best Of: September
September was busy as hell for me, in a mostly-good way. Travel It started with an intense three weeks of travel, where I visited 10 cities, attended and/or participated in 5 conferences, ran/helped run three workshops/talks, and was the dungeon…
Flights, Floggers, Borders, and Bondage – A Guide to Flying with Kink Toys
One perk of my work is that I’m able to travel a lot.One weird fact about me is that I have the worst travel luck. Seriously. Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong; from emergency landings because a bird…
Vegans Love Kink, Too!
I’ve long since lost track of how many kinks I have, and often find myself in kink stores (or online shopping), realizing that yes, I want that. And that, and that, and that. But then I inspect the items closer…
Making the (Sex) Blogging Community More Accessible
Welcome to my first guest post! I asked my friend Mari “Dev” Ramsawakh to contribute a post on making the (sex) blogging community more accessible to bloggers of colour, especially those with disabilities, and they – rightfully – have a…
Kate Sloan once published a blog post called “5 Awkward but Effective Ways I’ve Initiated Sex” and it made me laugh so much because that is exactly my life. After talking with her, I’ve decided to publish some of my…
By now, it’s no secret that I adore hurting people. And, if the conditions are right, I adore being hurt, too! What else do I love? Vegan kink items. 100% body-safe materials. Toys that are as easy to clean as…
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TW: kink, pictures of intense bruisings, talk of fisting I was fortunate enough to make it to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit this year (SFS17), thanks to people who generously donated to a crowdfunding campaign, and my two sponsors, Lovedreamer and…
I am intense about textures. The only time I tried acid was with a guy I was hooking up with. We ended up having sex, mostly because I was so freaked out by the texture of his clothing (wool shirt…