If you’re like me, you tend to find yourself wandering through the kitchen aisle at your local dollar store, giggling at the plethora of pervertables that you see for sale. Perhaps you wonder if it’s safe to use these things…
8 Stereotypes About Hiring an Escort
One of the things I hate about this industry in how full of misconceptions it is. Here are the 8 stereotypes that I hear the most often, and why I think they are not true! Curious what else I’ve written…
Intro to Fantasy Toys
I have never been a fantasy dick kind of guy. I mean, I love strange, non-realistic toys like my SQURM, but that really isn’t a fantasy toy. I have marveled over Lunabelle‘s very impressive collection, but then I’ve felt how…
August Spotlight: Phallophile Reviews
Felicity, the blogger behind Phallophile Reviews, started writing in May of 2017. For someone who has only been around for a few short months, she is really making an impression on me. The first piece that I read by her was on how dildos have made her better at handjobs, which includes a few beautifully composed grab-the-dildo pictures, an ode to foreskin (which obviously I’m all for), and a good joke about her ability to open a pickle jar. What more could you want?!
Pay For Your Porn!
Porn is fucking amazing. Like thousands of other folks, I have built a career around porn. I love filming it, performing in it, writing and talking and teaching about it, and I love watching it. Alone, with a partner, or…
Instead of a month in review for last month (tl;dr: I got SO many toys, went back to work, and had a LOT of fun kinky sex), I’m going to tell you the 5 things I’m most excited about at…
I have a crush on you. Don’t worry, I probably don’t want to date you. It’s possible I don’t even know you. I crush easily and often and I don’t expect anything from it. Are you a friend of mine?…
Conferences, even when fun, are often hard. They are emotionally and physically draining, especially if you don’t live in that city. You want to go to everything, see everyone, make new contacts, learn new things, eat good food, network with…
Conferences can be extremely hard. They are busy and everyone is stressed and/or excitedly meeting up with their friends that they barely get to see. They can be cliquey, or seem cliquey. Conferences can feel like you’re surrounded by your…
I’m going to be totally honest with you – I didn’t want the We Vibe Touch, nor did I want to like it. I asked for this vibrator in frustration after the umpteenth cis dude said “uhh, your [wand vibrator]…