Chest Fucking, Back Riding, Waist Ouching

I have a few strap on harnesses, and even fewer occasions to use them. Honestly, I’m always a bit self-conscious of my skills in this area – it’s a stamina thing. Strap on sex is something that you have to practice in order to stay on top of (hur hur hur), and I wasn’t practicing due to my uncertainty, which lead me to avoid it and become more convinced that I wasn’t any good.

Since I only use a strap on harness a few times a year, and already own three harnesses – including my all-time favourite, the Joque – plus a few strapless strap ons, I shortsightedly didn’t see any reason to try another harness.

My interest in this harness from Oxyd Creations sprung when I discovered that I can wear it as a fashionable chest piece. Once I actually wore it a few times on my chest, my friends and I started discussing more and more options for it as a harness, and suddenly I found myself significantly more excited about using it in this way.

The Technical Notes

Closeup of the detailing on the back of the Oxyd Creations waist harness with the suspenders on top
Pictured with the Oxyd Creations suspenders.

I own the smaller size, the waist of which ranges 28”-53” (as a chest harness, this is the measurement of your ribs just below your chest) and the thighs are also adjustable. It comes with two metal o rings (1 1/2″ and 2″), but is compatible with whatever ring size/material that you want! To change the ring, simply unsnap the four snaps in the front of the harness to get the new ring in place – these snaps are very firmly attached in the beginning, but they will open.

People often mistake mine for leather when in reality, it is made out of recycled bike tubes, gears, chain, and felt, and is 100% vegan! Want a version without the gears and chains? They have that too. Oxyd Creations is based out of Montreal, Canada, so hooray supporting local small businesses! To clean either version of the harness, simply wash it in soap and water (yes, even the metal and the felt parts).

Note: Oxyd Creations designed this specifically so that the dildo would be on the crotch. I describe alternate uses on the chest/back, but it wasn’t created to fit properly for these location, therefore the fit may be more odd than you expect.

One thing I love about the chest positions specifically are the group sex options – one person could be fucking the chest/back dildo while someone else plays with their genitals (making some of the more challenging positions delightfully harder to maintain)!

Another draw is the options for transfeminine folks. If you’re someone who enjoys the thought of penetrating with something that isn’t your factory installed bits, you can wear this on your chest or back and use it like that, perhaps lowering your dysphoria.

In this piece, the words “top”/“your partner” mean “person receiving penetration” and “you” means “person wearing the harness”. In reality, either one of you can be topping, bottoming, dominating, or submitting, and these things have nothing to do with who is penetrating whom.

The Pony Rider

Taylor crouches on hands and knees, peering intensely into the camera, ass raised. They're wearing tight blue and white booty shorts and a black rubber harness holds a bule dildo erect in the center of their backGiven my interest in pony play, this is what I was most excited about trying. Center the dildo between your shoulder blades and get on your hands and knees on a firm surface; if you have bad joints, feel free to grab some pads or pillows for your knees.

The top needs to be decent at squats for this to work well as they need to do all of the work (trust me, your attempts at thrusting from between your shoulders is very weird and not helpful), and depending on your sizes/strengths, they may need to keep most of their weight off of you, increasing the difficulty of the squat. Difficult or not, it was fucking hot!

I’ve had my eye on this pony play headgear for ages, and if I ever get it, I absolutely want to try this position again with that addition. Maybe also with a tail?

This is good for: ponies and riders, stress positions/predicament play, human furniture, orgasm denial, service, transfem folks, and threesomes.

The Back Rider

Position the harness as per the Pony Rider and lie on your belly. You’ll probably want your arms extended above your head, perhaps tied to a piece of furniture?

Your partner can ride you facing your head or your ass; leverage and leg positioning seems better when your partner is facing your butt, plus they can lean forward and grab a fistful of your ass and use it to brace themselves as they fuck themselves! There’s ample room for a vibrator too, depending on the size and shape of both the vibrator and your partner.

This one works better on a firm surface like the floor rather than the bed; on the bed it’s harder to get good leverage, which fatigues the top and causes the harness to dig into my back uncomfortably.

This is good for: human furniture, sex doll, being used to get off, service, orgasm denial, threesomes, and transfem folks.

The Chest Fucker

Taylor kneels on the ground between spread thighs. They are topless and wearing a rainbow fantasy dildo in the center of their chest while peering up at the person they're about to fuck who is wearing a blue zip-up sweater
Photo credit Mx Nillin

Another favourite (fits better on flatter chests)! Flip the harness over and put the dildo in the center of your chest. The harness won’t fit as well with the dildo in the front as it wasn’t built to be worn like this, but it fits well enough on me to not cause issues during use.

Position your partner on the edge of the bed (or chair, table, etc) and kneel between their legs. Longer dildos make this position much easier as you can crouch between their knees rather than their thighs, creating more room for your shoulders.

This is good for forced orgasms, service, and transfem folks.

The Teaser

Keep the dildo centered on your chest and lie flat. Your partner can ride facing you or away, whatever is more comfortable. You get the delightful sight of them lowering themselves down toward your face, and you’re juuust not able to get your mouth on them.

As someone who isn’t really into oral, the thought of topping like this is super hot! Sitting on a face doesn’t interest me much, but bringing my junk mere inches away and not letting them have a taste? Yeah, I’m a fan of that…

This is good for tease and denial, fucking amazing views, worship, transfem folks, and threesomes.

Taylor shown from the waist down. Their thighs are spread and they're wearing blue and white underwear and a bike tube strap on harness with a light blue dildo coming out of it

The Crotch Dicker

This harness looks fucking amazing around the waist and aesthetically I love it so much. The butt is very nice, the jock style allows for good access to your genitals if you want, and it does this…thing with my clit where it just sort of frames it and makes it look absolutely fantastic (thanks T!), as if my clit is on a podium with a spotlight trained on it or something?

Unlike when used on my chest, the tag on the inside itches my lower back a lot, which takes some getting used to it with time.

Unfortunately, I won’t use this as a waist harness much outside of photos because, frankly, it hurts me. The dildo sits high on my pubic bone and I’m a smaller person without much fat there, which means that no matter how gently I thrusted with it on my waist, my public bone has ranged from “oh, that’s getting kinda sore” to me feeling bruised for a few days.

closeup of Taylor's naked butt while they're wearing the Oxyd Creations harness. the jock's straps frame and life their butt very nicelySince I have the Joque, Bella, and a Rodeo, I’m more than happy using one of those for a waist harness and the Oxyd Creations one for alternative uses, but I’d be bummed if I didn’t have another waist harness.

A larger friend tested the harness as well to see how it felt on them, and they found that it hurt their pubic bone when fucking hard, but if they were being more gentle, it didn’t bother them.

This was the only aspect of the harness that let me down.

We both found that it was comfortable (when not fucking), the rubber felt nice against the skin, and it had a good grip to it to prevent it from sliding on our skin. When it did slide, neither of us found it uncomfortable, pinching, or as if it was going to cause blisters, cuts, or any other injury that some nylon/leather harnesses can cause.

This is good for: people with more weight over their public bone or who prefer gentler fucking.

The Wrap Up

It has the best control when used as a waist harness or with the dildo on your back – since that’s the shape Oxyd Creations made it for (think putting on a shirt backwards. It may fit and look alright, but you can usually feel the difference). Like many harnesses, it needs a bit of adjusting in the thigh straps as you change position, but nothing major.

Closeup of a blue dildo in the Oxyd Creations strap on harness. They harness is twisted so the dildo is sitting on the floor and you can see the decorative back of the harnessEvery time I wear it (with or without a dildo) or share photos, people are fascinated and comment on how gorgeous it is. I feel great wearing it, and love all the various ways it can be used – if I’m spending more than $100 on something, I want it to do more than one thing.

At $152, the price is a bit steep for a lot of folks (the version without chains and gears is $139), though I think the aesthetic and craftsmanship is worth that price. That said, it’s still a lot of money, especially for queer and trans people, especially when I don’t like it for its main function.

If you only care about having a waist harness, I’d suggest getting the Joque instead ($150) – it’s much more comfortable for thrusting, and the waist strap adjusts 30” so it’s also good to share/for weight changes.

BUT if you want alternatives to waist harnesses, to creatively play with power, fashion pieces (see it as a chest piece!), and items that can be used in a fuck ton of different ways, definitely get this.

Big thank you to Indigo who helped me figure out what worked using it as a chest harness! They were amazingly fun and I appreciate how eager they are to do my silly experiments.

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